Yesterday, Sunday evening, June 7, 2026 Mike got a call from his brother's step-daughter, Trish, that Pat, his brother had been found dead in his living room. Trish, who checked on him by phone each day, could not reach him and called the police who went to his home and found him there. Pat had been in the hospital a week or so ago with a heart issue. That was resolved and he had come home.
Pat was a "loner". He and his wife Robyn had lived far from towns and people in a beautiful part of northern New Mexico for decades. Robyn died several years ago leaving Pat by himself with his dog. He didn't seem to be bothered by being alone and fending for himself. He lived a full life always involved with working on his vehicles, refinishing his boat, upgrading his little truck, working in his yard, fishing with his buddies, playing video games, arguing with anyone who would listen about the government and political issues, and watching Youtube videos on a wide assortment of topics. A busy, interesting, independent guy.
In recent years his health had been declining. When he came to visit us this past December he had to bring his oxygen machine and tank as his lung problem had worsened. He continued to smoke, however. Go figure. Although I didn't know Pat well, I always enjoyed his visits. He had a great sense of humor, a compassionate heart for those he loved (especially his pets), enjoyed cooking great Mexican meals for us, had a blast playing disc golf on the TV with Deb, Mike and me, and talking non-stop about all the things he was working on at his home. I feel privileged to have known him and been a small part of his life. He had just turned 75. I will miss him.
Memories....
